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The current study focused on this group specifically and asked them, \u2018How do gender and sexually diverse Autistic adults experience and perceive romantic relationships?\u2019 Sixteen gender and\/or sexual minority Autistic adults took part in interviews. Interviews were transcribed and analysed using thematic analysis. Four main themes were identified from the interview data: (1) \u2018It\u2019s Quite Difficult to Put Autistic Relationships Into a Box\u2019, (2) Challenging Social Norms, (3) The Perks and Perils of Online Dating and (4) Understanding and Neurotype. The participants described their relationships as individual, valuable and shaped by unique preferences, mutual understanding and clear communication. They also talked about how the lines between friendships and romantic partnerships can be blurred, for example, sometimes they have sex with their friends and don\u2019t see this as an activity exclusively for romantic relationships. 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