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This study aims to analyse and understand the experiences of autistic women with their family and friends throughout the diagnostic process and subsequent help-seeking endeavors. A total of 21 Spanish autistic women aged between 20 and 58 years answered a series of open-ended questions\u2014respecting the participants' preferred modality. From the thematic analysis, two main themes emerged regarding the reactions of family and friends, dividing the experiences into two temporal phases: when disclosing the diagnosis and sometime later. Most participants noted that their relatives did not believe them, reacted in a hostile way, or did not give it any importance at the time of disclosure. As a result, their relationship deteriorated even further over time. In contrast, their friends served as pillars of support from the beginning, along with their partners and the associations they attended, because of which they met more autistic women who became their \u201cfamily\u201d. 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