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In parallel, the Job Demands-Resources (JD-R) model, originally developed in occupational psychology, demonstrates that the balance between demands and resources determines exhaustion and engagement. Although this logic has been extrapolated to intimate relationships through the notion of couple burnout, no comprehensive, operational framework has simultaneously captured both negative and positive dimensions of relational vitality. This article proposes the Couple Energy &amp;amp; Engagement Model (CEEM) to address these gaps. The CEEM introduces two core dimensions: couple (or relationship) energy, defined as the individual affective state reflecting vitality versus exhaustion within the relationship, and couple engagement, defined as observable behavioral investment-disengagement in the partnership. To render the CEEM falsifiable, we outline two psychometric instruments. The Couple Energy &amp;amp; Engagement Scale (CEES), analogous to the Oldenburg Burnout Inventory (OLBI), is designed to assess energy and engagement. The Couple Needs and Fulfillment Questionnaire (CNFQ) assesses fundamental expectations within the couple, the individual\u2019s communication of these expectations, and the perceived partner response as resources. Together, these tools enable empirical evaluation of CEEM, factor-analytic validation, and can be used in the modeling of relational profiles via data-driven approaches, including cluster analysis, machine learning, and the Actor-Partner Interdependence Model (APIM). The CEEM thus extends existing models by offering a dynamic, ecological, and operational account of individual experience in intimate relationships, paving the way for integrative empirical research capable of measuring, validating, and theoretically refining mechanisms of relational vitality and exhaustion.<\/jats:p>","DOI":"10.3389\/fpsyg.2026.1718462","type":"journal-article","created":{"date-parts":[[2026,2,27]],"date-time":"2026-02-27T06:51:47Z","timestamp":1772175107000},"update-policy":"https:\/\/doi.org\/10.3389\/crossmark-policy","source":"Crossref","is-referenced-by-count":0,"title":["The Couple Energy &amp; Engagement Model: a new operational theory for relationship burn-out"],"prefix":"10.3389","volume":"17","author":[{"given":"Benjamin","family":"Putois","sequence":"first","affiliation":[{"name":"Faculty of Psychology, Swiss Distance Learning University","place":["Brig, Switzerland"]},{"name":"Lyon Neuroscience Research Center, National Centre for Scientific Research UMR 5292\u2014National Institute of Health and Medical Research U1028","place":["Bron, France"]}],"role":[{"role":"author","vocabulary":"crossref"}]},{"given":"Royce","family":"Anders","sequence":"additional","affiliation":[{"name":"EPSYLON Laboratory, Department of Psychology, University of Montpellier Paul Val\u00e9ry","place":["Montpellier, France"]}],"role":[{"role":"author","vocabulary":"crossref"}]}],"member":"1965","published-online":{"date-parts":[[2026,2,27]]},"reference":[{"key":"ref1","doi-asserted-by":"publisher","first-page":"596","DOI":"10.1037\/0022-3514.63.4.596","article-title":"Inclusion of other in the self scale and the structure of interpersonal closeness","volume":"63","author":"Aron","year":"1992","journal-title":"J. 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